Questions for Dominants 04
September 29, 2012 Uncategorized
4. How old were you when you had your first conscious dominant experience, the first time you recognized what you were doing?
5. What’s the best thing about being dominant, outside of play?
Well, see, I kind of answered 4 in 3’s post. Serves me right for not reviewing them better. 🙂
Anyway, I think for me the best thing is not playing games. I don’t have to pretend I don’t care where we eat dinner so you can feel big and bad and decisive. I don’t have to play weird passive aggressive games to get what I want, I can say it.
I like being able to choose the work I do. Sometimes it’s not that I like it – ask me how much I’ve ever loved typing up invoices for drew. I don’t always enjoy it but I can assess my skills and preferences and the work to be done and decide.
I like knowing, frankly, that I can ask almost anyone to get me a drink or fetch my purse, and they will, without question. I imagine if you asked those people why, their answer might well be, because you’re Ms Constance, that’s why.
And frankly, I’m good with that.